The words sympathy and empathy have always been mistaken for each other, indeed i always thought they meant the same thing, but now i've come to know that to empathize is different from being able to sympathize. People can sympathize with pretty much anything that happens, you can sympathize with someone who is feeling depressed, has lost a loved one, is out of a job etc. To sympathize is to imagine what the other person is going through. But there is a few of us that can empathize. As i've come to understand the word, its the ultimate way of relating to anothers pain or suffering, but you can only get to this state if you yourself has been depressed, has lost a loved one, has been out of a job. It's the sharing of a sorrow and relating to the other person, because you have been through a similar experience. Yet still no one can enter into the pain you feel, or the suffering someone is going through, to connect totally. Pain and sorrow is individual, it depends on your genetic make, your very fibre, your experiences as a person, that has shaped you to be the person you are, the way you handle situations, its very personal, and the statement, i know how you feel, doesn't stand. No one can know how you feel, because you are you, and they are themselves, they're own person, handling the same situation in their own individual way. Yet there is one who can enter into this pain or suffering with you. Jesus Christ. Since He has been through everything you have been through doesn't make Him able to step inside the pain with you and understand how you feel, but the fact that He made you, and lives inside of you, and feels everything you feel, knows you intricately and personally (Psalm 139:13), this enables Him to be the ultimate empathizer, with everyone, you and me and everyone you'll ever meet or have met in your life. This is where i find my comfort, in the arms of the ultimate empathizer. I pray you'll do the same too.